Services
Marriages
Make this the most unforgettable time in your life. You can be assured with my experience you will control all the important facets and make this an incredibly memorable occasion. Just let me know what you aspire to. As a former Entertainments Director on Cruise Liners, nothing will daunt me.
- Upon initial contact I will provide you with comprehensive details, especially legal requirements, and can make a provisional booking of your wedding date.
- We then meet to sign the NOIM (Notice of intended Marriage). Legally this has to be completed not less than one calendar month and one day prior to the wedding. At this point it is essential to pay the initial deposit to confirm your booking and the signing of the Notice of Intended Marriage. This is a good time to discuss ideas for the ceremony.
- No charge will be levied for a rehearsal if it is at a convenient time and location for me, a 'talk through' may be sufficient. However, signatures and final payment will be needed, together with the confirmation of the style of ceremony to be used. (there are many to choose from)
- I have many Wedding contact ideas that may be of assistance in your planning - feel free to just ask me.
Re-Affirmation of Vows
This is becoming increasingly popular. It is a recommitment to acknowledge the long journey in your relationship. Both of you want to honour each other and reflect on each being your own person. It's your opportunity to affirm all the wonderful bonds between you, your family and friends.
This time may be remembered in perpetuity by a meaningful ceremony that encompasses important occasions.
Naming - Name Giving
This is a happy and meaningful (non religious) Ceremony, a sincere experience for all concerned, filled with JOY, HOPE and ACCEPTANCE.
It is important to have an abundance of people your child can call on when the necessity arises.
Your child can enjoy a special network of people, different from their parents, those that can really care, namely their Grandparents, Great Grandparents and other family members and friends.
Mentors, Guardians or Godparents are chosen by the parents to assume a more-than-ordinary responsibility in the event of death of the parents.
I really believe that leading by example is the best schooling for children. The way you treat them will be the way they are.
You choose the most appropriate venue. Remembering that some charge for their facilities, your own home may be appropriate.
Funerals
This is a time for people to reflect on the life of the special person that has passed away.
It is the final farewell of a loved one, a friend, a mate, a colleague. Someone who has made a meaningful impression on your own life.
An acknowledgement that your own life is better for having had the privilege and companionship of the deceased.
Life is a blessing that too few of us easily acknowledge.
Be joyful and grateful. I endeavour to make this the theme of these events when I officiate.
Favourite music and friends speeches and recollections are most welcome.
Commitments
Ceremonies between Gay Partners are not yet recognised in law, but the couple may make their commitment to each other. The words Spouse or Partner may be substituted for wife/husband.
Ceremonies maybe as diverse as you desire.
Public Speaking/After Dinner Speaking
As a member of the Public Speakers Association my forte is as an After Dinner Speaker for any time of the day.
I am a welcome addition to serious Meetings, having appeared at MENSA and Bi-Polar conferences, for example. I lighten the atmosphere, and am in regular demand with professional groups. I, also, talk to numerous Charity Organizations, and Compere major social events.
In my talks you are guaranteed to think outside the square. I have a never ending series of true tales with ever changing tangents that ensure that you never lose interest, whether for 20 minutes, an hour, or more.
Theatre Sports can also be an option..
Who else do you know is adept at ensuring the conviviality of everyone in the party? I have handled hundreds of people of all ages under one roof.
My life is an ongoing, incredibly humorous expression of Joy of Living. A simple philosophy - never have occasion to regret lost opportunity.